6 Simple Tips to Get Back into Online Dating

6 Simple Tips to Get Back into Online Dating

Whether you’ve just gotten over a rough breakup or you’re shaking off the dust after a COVID-induced dry spell, reentering the dating world is no easy task. If you’re feeling nervous about putting yourself out there, you’re not alone! The good news is these simple tips can help you get back into online dating with more confidence than ever.

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Make sure you’re looking and feeling your best

Physical chemistry aside, you can’t expect someone to care about you if you don’t care about
yourself. Make an effort to exercise and eat right but make sure you’re putting just as much
effort into maintaining your mental health as your physical health. If you have insecurities about
your appearance, this can be a real hindrance. Treat yourself to a book or two on self-love and confidence. For thinning hair, there are plenty of hair loss treatments and adult acne can be controlled with over-the-counter or prescription treatments.

Think about what you’re looking for

While you’re working on yourself, spend some time thinking about what you’re looking for in a
partner and in a relationship. Consider your past relationships and reflect on the aspects you did
and didn’t like. Rather than making a list of physical attributes, think about the core values
you’re looking for in a partner and what kind of life you hope to build with them. Knowing who
you are and what you want will help you date with confidence.

Give your dating profile a makeover

Reading a dating profile is no substitute for an in-person conversation, but it’s important to keep
your profile updated so it presents an accurate reflection of you. Make sure you have a variety
of dating profile photos to choose from (no group photos please) and update your social media accounts while you’re at it.

If you don’t have the energy to write an extensive profile, pick a few key questions to answer. Intrigue them and leave them wanting to know more.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself

As you ease back into dating, remember the end goal. You want to find that special someone, of
course, but what’s ultimately important is that you’re happy. Take things slow and enter each
date with only the intention of getting to know the person as an individual, not just a potential partner.

Be open-minded about each opportunity and don’t rush the process.

Respect yourself and others

As eager as you may be to get back into the game, it’s important to keep safety in mind. Follow
local regulations regarding indoor activities and consider starting off with a Zoom date or
Facetime call. If things go well, you can graduate to an outdoor activity then discuss what you’re
both comfortable with from there. Pay attention to social distancing rules and keep your mask
handy.

Ask the important questions

As nerve-wracking as dating can be, it can also be exciting. Before you get caught up in the
excitement about a new relationship, however, it’s important to slow down and ask the important
questions – especially before being intimate. Hit the big-button issues like STD testing, birth
control, and potential COVID exposure. If you’re considering being intimate with this person, you
should care enough about their safety (and yours) to have an adult conversation.

Whether you’ve been out of the dating game for months or years, your initial reentry is bound to
feel awkward. Don’t worry – we’re all in the same boat! Dating may look a little different than it
did the last time you were out, but it’s more important than ever to experiment, have fun and live in the
moment!

 

Photos by Rosemary and Anna, for Hey Saturday, Los Angeles & Alyssa for Hey Saturday, New York City.

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I’m pretty excited to be part of @clementineappuk’s online wellness festival, Reboot.

I’ll be sharing some tips on how to create some good quality headshots for LinkedIn at home with just a smart phone and a friend. I’ll also cover the steps you need to follow to show up authentically in front of the camera. All my tips will be helpful for those of you who want to create dating profile photos at home too.

Head to Clementine’s feed to find out more. I’m in fantastic company as they have so many amazing speakers every week night, starting tonight.

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🔥Looking good starts with feeling good 🔥

I shared my top dating photoshoot tips with Bustle recently.

Next week I’m going Live with a very special guest (more on Monday) to chat small, simple things you can do every week to feel better about yourself. I can’t think of anything more important to focus on right now.

This weekend, I’m going to put on a couple of my favourite deep house tunes (you know, the ones I used to go clubbing to) and dance my heart out. (Movement, check. Happiness, Check. Laughter, check). What small thing are you going to do that will make you feel better about yourself?

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💜SUCCESS STORY💜
Just before Christmas, this lovely client emailed Nicole and I to let us know the good news..

She’s met someone. He was intrigued by her profile pictures and wanted to find out more. We’ve been doing a happy dance ever since
👯👯‍♀️👯

Today’s shout out goes to Nicole for creating another super happy & loved up client!

Happy 5 month anniversary S, we’re so very happy to hear your news. Here’s to a wonderful year ahead together 💜

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❤️ Love letter of the week ❤️

Searching for ‘dating app photos’... never silly and always cool as long as Hey Saturday is alive & kicking 🙌🏽

I particularly love this email all the way from a Los Angeles client. Thank you, it means a lot.

#dowhatyoulove #datingadvice #datingphototips #tinderpics #youareenough #lovelife #youareworthit #creativevibes #goodvibesonly #startup #entrepreneur #brand #personalbranding #creative #Selflove #selfworth #loveyourselffirst #loveyourself #youareabadass #badass #loveyourlife #photographer #datingphotos #mindsetreset #onlinedating #modernromance #modernlove
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What’s your secret sauce? What’s different about you? We really want to know.

But why tho’?
To us, your dating photoshoot is more than just a photoshoot. It’s your opportunity to tell people who you are and what you’re made of.

It’s your chance to show people why they should date you over others.

And.... when done well, with intention...helps you to attract your ideal ‘audience’ more easily.

And that’s something we can totally get on board with🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

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••• Why do you need to express your personal brand in your dating profile pictures? ••••

Hmm good question, Sask 🤔

Still reading? Yay. So yes expressing your personal brand in your photos is a way of shaping what people think about you when they see your profile online.

It’s a way of showing people why they should choose to connect with you over others.

A bit of thought and intention up front when creating your photos can lead to more ... and better ... connections with people who share your vibe. Sounds good, right.

In 2021, we’re shifting our focus to help our clients bring more focus to figuring out & sharing their personal brand in their pictures.

Coming for ya 2021 💪🏽

#confidence #selflove #brand #personalbranding #datenight
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How you present yourself to the world matters. How you present yourself on your dating profile matters even more.

I’ve just written this article for Thrive Global because, you know what? In 2021 we’re on a mission to support our clients to create visually compelling profile pictures with built-in personality and intrigue.

We are going all out to help them to pique people’s interest & increase engagement with their dating app profile. More importantly, it’s going to be fun. Our photoshoots are an adventure not a chore 🔥🔥

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Our photoshoots are more than just a photoshoot. They’re more than just a massive confidence boost. They’re a way to help you connect more easily with people you resonate with online. And that’s a pretty cool thing. This client was so happy with his Hey Saturday experience that I was properly moved by the emails he sent me afterwards. This is the end of the last one he sent 💛

Huge shout out to Rachel - Rachel, this client is one of yours 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank youuuu for creating another happy person in my life.

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Grab the popcorn & pull out the fuzzy blankets. I’m going Live tonight, chatting to @matcheduk about dating profile pictures 🙌🏽📸🍿

#datingadvice #datingqpps #datingpics #tinder #tinderpics
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Today’s love letter was written to Lauren who massively boosted this client’s confidence in her 60th year 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Brava Lauren, this is such a fantastic feedback note.

We love working with our older clients & one of our oldest clients at age 76 is featured on our homepage. You should check it out, it’s one of my favourite Hey Saturday pics (& it was shot by the awesome Polly).

Whatever age you are, we’ll go out of our way to welcome you and help you relax into your shoot. A fun, confidence-boosting experience awaits.

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Can’t wait to chat to Sunna and ask her your style questions on what to wear in your dating profile pictures. (But never mind that - what am I gonna wear for this Instagram Live?!)

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+++ Looking good starts with feeling good +++

I shared this tip with Bustle. I’m getting into radical kindness now actually, which says before you can show up with kindness for anyone else, you need to show up - big time - for yourself. Then you show up for others and then you show up for the wider world.

But it’s easy to forget that first step - showing up for yourself.

“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” ~ Jack Kornfield

Look after yourself, feel good, look good.

And also be kind to others 💚

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I’ve received a lot of client ‘love letters’ this year but this particular client has written to me personally a few times now to tell me what his Hey Saturday photoshoot meant to him. I am always so touched to get good feedback but I think this client has given me the most feels ever. A huge shout out to Rachel for creating such an amazing experience for him. Our photographers are seriously the coolest. This is a snippet of what he sent to Rachel after his shoot. My heart ❤️❤️ Thank you Rachel ❤️❤️

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There’s still time to DM me your questions for Sarah Gilfillan of @sartorialab for today’s live. Sarah is one of my favourite people I’ve met through Hey Saturday so I’m looking forward to this. See you there? I’ll post it later for anyone who’s into it, as I know it’s hard to catch stuff live.

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