Why You Need An Online Dating Coach

Why You Need An Online Dating Coach

You’ve got yourself some amazing dating pictures and are excited to start meeting new people, but what do you need to do next? Online dating and dating apps can be frustrating if you aren’t sure how to use them properly. So, to help, we asked our friend and leading Dating Coach James Preece to explain exactly what he does and how his services may be able to help you.

James Preece has been working in the dating industry for over 15 years and is a coach for many different dating brands around the world. Here are his most common reasons why you may choose to work with him.

You are inexperienced or haven’t been on the scene in a while

Maybe it’s been a long time since your last date. Maybe you’ve been too busy to try or you’ve been focusing on yourself. Maybe you’ve recently separated from a long-term partner. If you’ve been off the dating scene for a while, coming back can be confusing. There may be new lingo. Meeting people may have changed. Protocols for the first date may be different. These are things an online dating coach can help you with. They can also help you with choosing first-date activities.

 

You need a great dating profile, but you’re stumped

A dating coach will help you to craft an amazing profile that stands out from all the rest. Your online presence will make as great of an impact as you’d make in person. First impressions are the most important, after all. This is true with online dating as well and a first impression is made through your profile. Coaching will also guide you through the online dating process, including sending messages. You’ll know exactly how to charm anyone and land that first date.

James Preece Dating CoachShot by Saskia for Hey Saturday, London

You’re insecure or awkward when it comes to intimacy

Many people are insecure when it comes to emotional intimacy. Unfortunately, that results in some people shutting down their emotions entirely. Instead of following that route, you can make use of an online dating coach to help you get over that fear. Through coaching, you can boost your self-confidence and feel more secure approaching other people. You’ll learn how to start and hold a conversation. This can be beneficial if you’re shy too!

You don’t know your personal strengths and weaknesses

Professionally, you may know exactly what works for you and what doesn’t. Do you know the same details on a more intimate level? Dating may be a bit like building an enterprise, but there are many differences too. An online dating coach can help you to figure out what your strengths and weaknesses are. Together, you can apply this information to your dating life and make the changes that set you towards your ideal future.

James Preece Dating Coach

Shot by Saskia for Hey Saturday, London

You need a clear vision of your future

If you’re looking for that special someone, it can be easy to get swept up in the search. You hardly stop to think about what happens next. The reality is, you need to know the next steps too. Once you find that special someone, what are you hoping/looking for? Do you know? Before getting into the dating scene, you may want to decide what your future should look like. The online dating coach can help you to figure out exactly what you’re looking for and help you to see the bigger picture for yourself.

You don’t have enough time!

One of the benefits of a dating coach is helping you find a balance between work and your love life. There is a good chance you spend all your time engaged in work-related activities. When you do get the rare moments to yourself, you still don’t have enough time to find a companion. Searching for someone does take a good amount of time, especially when you account for screening out non-compatible matches. Using a dating coach can help you to make the most of your time.

If you’d like to find out more James Preece and how he might be able to help you, do have a look at his site HERE.

 
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get back into online dating

I’m pretty excited to be part of @clementineappuk’s online wellness festival, Reboot.

I’ll be sharing some tips on how to create some good quality headshots for LinkedIn at home with just a smart phone and a friend. I’ll also cover the steps you need to follow to show up authentically in front of the camera. All my tips will be helpful for those of you who want to create dating profile photos at home too.

Head to Clementine’s feed to find out more. I’m in fantastic company as they have so many amazing speakers every week night, starting tonight.

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🔥Looking good starts with feeling good 🔥

I shared my top dating photoshoot tips with Bustle recently.

Next week I’m going Live with a very special guest (more on Monday) to chat small, simple things you can do every week to feel better about yourself. I can’t think of anything more important to focus on right now.

This weekend, I’m going to put on a couple of my favourite deep house tunes (you know, the ones I used to go clubbing to) and dance my heart out. (Movement, check. Happiness, Check. Laughter, check). What small thing are you going to do that will make you feel better about yourself?

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💜SUCCESS STORY💜
Just before Christmas, this lovely client emailed Nicole and I to let us know the good news..

She’s met someone. He was intrigued by her profile pictures and wanted to find out more. We’ve been doing a happy dance ever since
👯👯‍♀️👯

Today’s shout out goes to Nicole for creating another super happy & loved up client!

Happy 5 month anniversary S, we’re so very happy to hear your news. Here’s to a wonderful year ahead together 💜

#confidence #selflove #brand #personalbranding #datenight #datingphotos #onlinedatingsite #onlinedatingapps #datingapps #datingphotoshoot #datingprofilepic #datingwithpurpose #love #romance #modernromance #modernlove #newprofilepic #newprofile #tinder #tinderprofile #tinderpic #hinge #datingphotosforwomen #datingphotographer #datingphotographer #successstory #datingadvice #successmindset #successstrategies
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❤️ Love letter of the week ❤️

Searching for ‘dating app photos’... never silly and always cool as long as Hey Saturday is alive & kicking 🙌🏽

I particularly love this email all the way from a Los Angeles client. Thank you, it means a lot.

#dowhatyoulove #datingadvice #datingphototips #tinderpics #youareenough #lovelife #youareworthit #creativevibes #goodvibesonly #startup #entrepreneur #brand #personalbranding #creative #Selflove #selfworth #loveyourselffirst #loveyourself #youareabadass #badass #loveyourlife #photographer #datingphotos #mindsetreset #onlinedating #modernromance #modernlove
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What’s your secret sauce? What’s different about you? We really want to know.

But why tho’?
To us, your dating photoshoot is more than just a photoshoot. It’s your opportunity to tell people who you are and what you’re made of.

It’s your chance to show people why they should date you over others.

And.... when done well, with intention...helps you to attract your ideal ‘audience’ more easily.

And that’s something we can totally get on board with🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

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••• Why do you need to express your personal brand in your dating profile pictures? ••••

Hmm good question, Sask 🤔

Still reading? Yay. So yes expressing your personal brand in your photos is a way of shaping what people think about you when they see your profile online.

It’s a way of showing people why they should choose to connect with you over others.

A bit of thought and intention up front when creating your photos can lead to more ... and better ... connections with people who share your vibe. Sounds good, right.

In 2021, we’re shifting our focus to help our clients bring more focus to figuring out & sharing their personal brand in their pictures.

Coming for ya 2021 💪🏽

#confidence #selflove #brand #personalbranding #datenight
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How you present yourself to the world matters. How you present yourself on your dating profile matters even more.

I’ve just written this article for Thrive Global because, you know what? In 2021 we’re on a mission to support our clients to create visually compelling profile pictures with built-in personality and intrigue.

We are going all out to help them to pique people’s interest & increase engagement with their dating app profile. More importantly, it’s going to be fun. Our photoshoots are an adventure not a chore 🔥🔥

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Our photoshoots are more than just a photoshoot. They’re more than just a massive confidence boost. They’re a way to help you connect more easily with people you resonate with online. And that’s a pretty cool thing. This client was so happy with his Hey Saturday experience that I was properly moved by the emails he sent me afterwards. This is the end of the last one he sent 💛

Huge shout out to Rachel - Rachel, this client is one of yours 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank youuuu for creating another happy person in my life.

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Grab the popcorn & pull out the fuzzy blankets. I’m going Live tonight, chatting to @matcheduk about dating profile pictures 🙌🏽📸🍿

#datingadvice #datingqpps #datingpics #tinder #tinderpics
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Today’s love letter was written to Lauren who massively boosted this client’s confidence in her 60th year 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Brava Lauren, this is such a fantastic feedback note.

We love working with our older clients & one of our oldest clients at age 76 is featured on our homepage. You should check it out, it’s one of my favourite Hey Saturday pics (& it was shot by the awesome Polly).

Whatever age you are, we’ll go out of our way to welcome you and help you relax into your shoot. A fun, confidence-boosting experience awaits.

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Can’t wait to chat to Sunna and ask her your style questions on what to wear in your dating profile pictures. (But never mind that - what am I gonna wear for this Instagram Live?!)

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+++ Looking good starts with feeling good +++

I shared this tip with Bustle. I’m getting into radical kindness now actually, which says before you can show up with kindness for anyone else, you need to show up - big time - for yourself. Then you show up for others and then you show up for the wider world.

But it’s easy to forget that first step - showing up for yourself.

“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” ~ Jack Kornfield

Look after yourself, feel good, look good.

And also be kind to others 💚

#radicalkindness #selflove #loveyourself #selfesteemboost #selfesteem #selfacceptance #bustle #lookinggood #feelinggood #feels #feelsgood #datingadvice #datingphotoshoot #kindness #datingmindset #mindsetiseverything #mindsetmatters #mindset #creativehappylife #datinglife #datingphotos #singlelady #singlewoman
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I’ve received a lot of client ‘love letters’ this year but this particular client has written to me personally a few times now to tell me what his Hey Saturday photoshoot meant to him. I am always so touched to get good feedback but I think this client has given me the most feels ever. A huge shout out to Rachel for creating such an amazing experience for him. Our photographers are seriously the coolest. This is a snippet of what he sent to Rachel after his shoot. My heart ❤️❤️ Thank you Rachel ❤️❤️

#dating #datingphotos #onlinedatingsite #onlinedatingapps #datingapps #datingphotoshoot #datenightoutfit #datingprofilepic #datingwithpurpose #loveonline #love #romance #modernromance #modernlove #newprofilepic #newprofile #tinder #tinderprofile #tinderpic #tinderprofilepic #datingphotosformen #datingphotographer #datingphotographer #confidence #selflove #adventure #loveyourself #selfesteem
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There’s still time to DM me your questions for Sarah Gilfillan of @sartorialab for today’s live. Sarah is one of my favourite people I’ve met through Hey Saturday so I’m looking forward to this. See you there? I’ll post it later for anyone who’s into it, as I know it’s hard to catch stuff live.

#menstyle #mensstyle #mensfashion #datingphotosformen #datingphotos #profilepictures #portraits #brandingshoot #personalbranding #personalbrandingtips #datingtips #datingphotography #fashion #style #wardrobestylist #wardrobedesign #loveyourself #confidence #styleinspo #styleinspiration #instalive #datingtips #brand #selfconfidence #bold #colourful #vibes #bodypositive
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