Why You Need An Online Dating Coach

Why You Need An Online Dating Coach

You’ve got yourself some amazing dating pictures and are excited to start meeting new people, but what do you need to do next? Online dating and dating apps can be frustrating if you aren’t sure how to use them properly. So, to help, we asked our friend and leading Dating Coach James Preece to explain exactly what he does and how his services may be able to help you.

James Preece has been working in the dating industry for over 15 years and is a coach for many different dating brands around the world. Here are his most common reasons why you may choose to work with him.

You are inexperienced or haven’t been on the scene in a while

Maybe it’s been a long time since your last date. Maybe you’ve been too busy to try or you’ve been focusing on yourself. Maybe you’ve recently separated from a long-term partner. If you’ve been off the dating scene for a while, coming back can be confusing. There may be new lingo. Meeting people may have changed. Protocols for the first date may be different. These are things an online dating coach can help you with. They can also help you with choosing first-date activities.

 

You need a great dating profile, but you’re stumped

A dating coach will help you to craft an amazing profile that stands out from all the rest. Your online presence will make as great of an impact as you’d make in person. First impressions are the most important, after all. This is true with online dating as well and a first impression is made through your profile. Coaching will also guide you through the online dating process, including sending messages. You’ll know exactly how to charm anyone and land that first date.

James Preece Dating CoachShot by Saskia for Hey Saturday, London

You’re insecure or awkward when it comes to intimacy

Many people are insecure when it comes to emotional intimacy. Unfortunately, that results in some people shutting down their emotions entirely. Instead of following that route, you can make use of an online dating coach to help you get over that fear. Through coaching, you can boost your self-confidence and feel more secure approaching other people. You’ll learn how to start and hold a conversation. This can be beneficial if you’re shy too!

You don’t know your personal strengths and weaknesses

Professionally, you may know exactly what works for you and what doesn’t. Do you know the same details on a more intimate level? Dating may be a bit like building an enterprise, but there are many differences too. An online dating coach can help you to figure out what your strengths and weaknesses are. Together, you can apply this information to your dating life and make the changes that set you towards your ideal future.

James Preece Dating Coach

Shot by Saskia for Hey Saturday, London

You need a clear vision of your future

If you’re looking for that special someone, it can be easy to get swept up in the search. You hardly stop to think about what happens next. The reality is, you need to know the next steps too. Once you find that special someone, what are you hoping/looking for? Do you know? Before getting into the dating scene, you may want to decide what your future should look like. The online dating coach can help you to figure out exactly what you’re looking for and help you to see the bigger picture for yourself.

You don’t have enough time!

One of the benefits of a dating coach is helping you find a balance between work and your love life. There is a good chance you spend all your time engaged in work-related activities. When you do get the rare moments to yourself, you still don’t have enough time to find a companion. Searching for someone does take a good amount of time, especially when you account for screening out non-compatible matches. Using a dating coach can help you to make the most of your time.

If you’d like to find out more James Preece and how he might be able to help you, do have a look at his site HERE.

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Choose profile pics that tell people what it would be like to date you. What it would be like to be in a relationship with you. This will help you attract people who resonate more with your vibe.

Show them who you are, what you love, where you like to hang out, what you love to do.

Showing up authentically in your photos will help secure more and better quality dates 🙌🏽.

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Wait what? If you’re not doing this already, here’s a super simple way to increase the attention you’re attracting online.... by 27% according to @tinder.

As an experiment this week, swap out your leading photo if it doesn’t clearly show all of your face. Swap out pictures of your face that are in profile, half hidden in shadow or by sunglasses, anything like that.

Choose, instead, a good quality, well-lit, smiling close-up of your face and shoulders.

Make sure your smile or laugh is a natural one - you’ll know by checking to make sure your eyes are engaged in the smile too.

They’ll be the tell-tell crinkling of your upper cheeks. This is important to check as people are subconsciously drawn to genuine smiles and put off by fake ones.

And make sure your eyes are looking at the camera. It’s more engaging. Your eyes are the most important part of the photo - it where people look first and subconsciously decide whether you’re trustworthy or not.

OK, let me know how you get on. Oh yes and don’t forget to include bright red somewhere in the shot, if you can, to really maximise the attention you’re attracting to your profile.

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Whether you’re aware or not, your clothes are telling people a powerful story about you.

They can reveal things like what mood you’re in, what kind of lifestyle you lead, what you’re into, how much money you might earn and even how you feel about yourself.

Wow, ok. Super revealing. (And also I’m really glad no one has been able to see what I’ve been wearing the last month or so 🙈).

But, that said, there’s evidence to suggest you don’t have to dress how you feel... but how you want to feel. Brilliant!

This means, when you’re heading out for your dating photoshoot and on dates, you can choose clothes with intention. Ones that make you feel sexy, confident, in control, feminine, cool, flirty, formal, informal, comfortable or whatever you want to say about you. Keep it authentic though. The clothes need to feel right, don’t force it.

I love knowing that simply by tweaking your outfit, you can improve your whole mood and uplift your confidence levels 🔥🔥

#pyschologyofclothing #clothing #fashion
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It’s party time at Hey Saturday HQ 🌿

We have just started a partnership with @onetreeplanted. For every Hey Saturday photoshoot we sell, a tree is planted in Ethiopia.

I’ve finally woken up and realised you can’t build a just and equitable society on a planet that’s been destabilised by human activity.

The fights against climate change and racial injustice are deeply intertwined as marginalised communities are disproportionately impacted by it.

Recently, I’ve fallen in love with trees through my forest bathing practice and they are pretty dang magical at helping to save our planet.

The tree planting project in Ethiopia links environmental restoration with income generation, providing the local community with the knowledge and tools to conserve their land, protect their water supply and create a sustainable, diverse economy for future generations 🙌🏽

*Huge thank you to David Attenborough whose powerful documentary, Our Planet, needs to be seen by everyone. It’s a huge fuck-off wake up call. We’re killing off the planet and marginalised communities are already suffering for it.

#tree_magic #trees #onetreeplanted #planetearth #savetheplanet #savetheearth #racism #equality #equalrights #lifeonearth #forest #forestbathingtherapy #ethiopia #planetearth #healthyliving
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💋9 indulgent ways to be your own dang Valentine💋

If you’re single today and feeling it, maybe it’s time to get indulgent and celebrate yourself and your most important relationship ever. If you can be someone who makes YOU happy, that’s literally the most important thing.

Plus, being single is cool af and always worth celebrating when you can. Here are 9 indulgent ways you might celebrate yourself today... give me a shout if you have others 🙌🏽

❤️ Dress up
❤️ Fill your day with positive affirmations spoken out loud to the mirror and then repeated in your head like a background mantra (sounds woo woo, but once you get over that, this is pure awesomeness)
❤️ Go back to bed and indulge in some sweet, sweet self-loving
❤️ Treat yourself to something a bit special (buy yourself a nice present online, something you’ve had your eye on maybe)
❤️ Pick up some flowers for yourself - you’re gonna be home a lot to enjoy them this week
❤️ Take a social media break & focus on doing exactly what you fancy doing
❤️ Take the focus off yourself for a while. Phone your gran, write a letter to an old friend, make a donation to a charity, buy from a black and /or LGBTQ+ owned business or something like that. (Also do that last one whenever you can). Doing something nice for someone else is always a guarantee to make you feel good
❤️ Cook, bake or make exactly what you fancy eating right now, however indulgent
❤️ And my personal favourite- dig out your bike, skateboard, rollerblades or whatever you have lying around that you loved doing as a kid outdoors - head out to the park and celebrate that kid inside, they need letting out to play now and again and today seems like a great day for that...

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I noticed we have a lot of new followers so I wanted to say hey & thank you for following & also ask where you’re all from in the world. I’m Saskia, I run Hey Saturday & I’m a Brit currently living in Spain. And you?

I’m so glad you’re here. Hey Saturday loves to help people show up authentically in their dating profile pictures to help them attract more people who resonate with them.

📌 If you want me to check out your current dating app pics and share my thoughts on them, hit me up in my DMs. I’m really up for doing Tinder Photo Surgeries on Live 😆😀

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I say this a lot but... Your photoshoot ain’t just a photoshoot... it’s your opportunity to tell people who you are. What you stand for. What makes you special. Why they should date you over everyone else.

Your profile pics should give them an insight into what it’s like to date you. To be in a relationship with you. (The best bits, of course, not the couch-potato, sweat-pant version).

Show them glimpses of what you’re about. What you like to wear. What you’re into. Where you like to hang. How you like to spend your time. Your temperament. If done well, your profile pics can help you attract your tribe, people who resonate with your vibe.

Take a fresh look at your photos next time you log on and check what they are saying about you?

#singlelifeproblems #singlelady #singlewomen #singlemen #singleandreadytomingle #singleandsearching #singlelifestyle #singleandhappy #modernlove #mindset #loveyourself #datingwithapurpose #datingadvice #datinglife #profilepictures #profilepic #profilepics #profilephoto #onlinedating #onlinedatingsucks #onlinedatingfail #happylife #happysingle #relationshipgoals #personalbrandingtips #datingapp #datingapps #datingadviceformen #datingadviceforwomen #datingprofilephotography
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Today’s shout out goes out to all our clients who said they felt a bit silly googling ‘dating profile pics’ til they found us.
We’re so here for you 🤩

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To the lovely person who slid into my DMs with this message, just want you to know this shout out is for you. You’ve made my week & it’s only Monday 🙌🏽🙏🏽 I needed this right now, so thank you.

#singlelifeproblems #singlelady #singlewomen #singlemen #singleandreadytomingle #singleandsearching #singlelifestyle #singleandhappy #modernlove #mindset #loveyourself #datingwithapurpose #datingadvice #datinglife #profilepictures #profilepic #profilepics #profilephoto #onlinedating #onlinedatingsucks #onlinedatingfail #happylife #happysingle #relationshipgoals #personalbrandingtips #datingapp #datingapps #datingadviceformen #datingadviceforwomen
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• Leverage Your Points of Difference •

We’ve all seen the cookie-cutter, identical dating app profiles & profile pics. Lots of people write variations of the same thing in their bio and have the group shot, the holiday snap & that pro one taken at their best mate’s wedding two years ago.

In 2021, we’re ready for something different. Different is the key word here. We’re dying to find out what makes you different to all the others. What makes you stand out? What’s your USP? Your secret sauce?

If you’re bold enough to start digging deep and reveal real snippets about who you are, it will pay off. You’ll start attracting people who resonate more deeply with who you are.

Before you capture some new profile pics, take the time to sit down & answer this question honestly:
What is it about you that makes you stand out from others?
Write down as many things as you can. It should cover passions, interests, skills, talents, quirks and anything else that makes you distinctly you. These are your points of difference. Choose the most positive ones and start finding ways to showcase them in your profile photos.

Dating profile pictures that actually reveal elements of your authentic story, are so much more powerful and compelling than regular photos.

This small effort could be the one thing that helps you find your lobster 🦞

#singlelifeproblems #singlelady #singlewomen #singlemen #singleandreadytomingle #singleandsearching #singlelifestyle #singleandhappy #modernlove #mindset #loveyourself #datingwithapurpose #datingadvice #datinglife #profilepictures #profilepic #profilepics #profilephoto #onlinedating #onlinedatingsucks #onlinedatingfail #happylife #happysingle #relationshipgoals #personalbrandingtips #datingapp #datingapps #datingadviceformen #datingadviceforwomen
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I’m finally figuring out that I can meditate & it’s not just a beautiful thing but a powerful thing. I’m still really new to it all so today, I’m very excited to be chatting here on Live to Hannah from @breathelikeabadass, a meditation teacher. She also empowers women to become more successful in life and business through her coaching and yes... meditation plays a key role in this.

I have lots of questions for her including asking about techniques for feeling calm and confident ahead of dating photoshoots and Zoom dates. Want to join?

#dowhatyoulove #youareenough #lovelife #youareworthit #creativevibes #goodvibesonly #personalbranding #coaching #meditation #meditationiskey #entrepreneur #brand #personalbranding #creative #Selflove #selfworth #loveyourselffirst #loveyourself #youareabadass #badass #loveyourlife #dating #single #photographer #datingphotos #mindsetreset #psychology #badassery #onlinedating
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Oye, yo adoro esta cita 💚 What a cool way with words George has. I can feel some horizontal desires coming on right now, I mean it’s still the weekend...

Also... a little-known dating photo hack is have a dance to a favourite tune either before or during your dating photoshoot to get in a confident headspace, feel good and look relaxed in your profile pics. Works like a charm.... 🎧

#singlelifeproblems #singlelady #singlewomen #singlemen #singleandreadytomingle #singleandsearching #singlelifestyle #singleandhappy #modernlove #mindset #loveyourself #datingwithapurpose #datingadvice #datinglife #profilepictures #profilepic #profilepics #profilephoto #onlinedating #onlinedatingsucks #onlinedatingfail #happylife #happysingle #relationshipgoals #personalbrandingtips #datingapp #datingapps #datingadviceformen #datingadviceforwomen
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