Expert Tips for the Best Dating Profile Photos for Women

Expert Tips for the Best Dating Profile Photos for Women

Are you ready for the busiest day of the year in the online dating world? How’s your dating profile looking? Ready to kickstart your love life? If you need help creating a written profile that will maximise your impact, I hope you’ve checked out my partner-in-crime Rebecca Perkins, she’ll get your profile firing on all cylinders.

And how are your dating profile photos? Not sure? Well, you’re in the right place. I’ve been credited with kickstarting a new genre of photography, dating photography, and am the world’s leading expert on all things dating photo related. Hey Saturday has been running for almost four years and worked with well over 1,000 clients now so we know what works well and what doesn’t work so well, plus we keep our eye on all the latest research. Here are our top tips for women’s dating profile photos to create maximum impact online and attract tonnes more dates.

Smiling & flirting is where it’s at

Yes, no surprises here, men like photos of women smiling and looking flirty. Why? Well apart from the obvious reasons, that it makes women look fun and attractive, some previous research has shown that happiness is often associated with low dominance and femininity, which is apparently why men are most attracted to women displaying happiness. Goodbye feminism! Just to add to that, make sure that if you’re doing that flirty thing, that you’re looking into the lens now away. A jealousy thing perhaps?

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Include a recent full body shot

Men are pretty visual when it comes to online dating and like to see what’s what, just as they would if they met you in a bar so remember to include one full length body shot. A recent one so that it isn’t misleading.

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Use colour to stand out

Sean Rad, CEO of Tinder, has recently announced that colour is a great way of making your dating photos stand out online. This is something that Hey Saturday has been embracing since we launched in early 2013. Just one look at our portfolio and you’ll see how we go out of our way to ensure we bring colour into the photos as much as possible. If you love wearing bright colours, then wear them in your photos. Red is particularly good for dating photos as men LOVE red when it comes to matters of the heart – after all it represents passion, love and danger. If you’re more into neutral colours, then find something colourful that you can include somewhere in the background.

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Do something interesting

It’s really important to create dating profile photos that tell people a little bit about you and your lifestyle. Clothes, hair and make-up all help with this but including photos where you’re doing something you love or are visiting somewhere you love helps people build up a picture of who you are and your interests and passions. Make your photos work hard for your dating profile, that way you won’t need to rely on the written profile quite so much.

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Be the main thing in the shot

So if you’re using dating photos of yourself with pets, children, friends or booze, then please go and delete them now. Photos of you on your own have a much higher click-through rate than those where you’re sharing the limelight. It’s particularly important to lose the photos of you with your friends because you’re creating potential reasons for people to skip over your profile. They might check out your friends and not like the look of them, or even worse, they might like the look of your best friend more and decide not to bother with you. Be the most important thing in the shot.

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Include lots of medium shots

The types of photos that receive the most interest are medium shots like the girl in the photo directly below. The reason for this, according to eHarmony’s matching team, is that you can actually get a good sense of the person’s body type and see them in some context with their surroundings.

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best dating profile photos women

I hope you’ve found these tips for creating and choosing winning dating profile pictures really useful. If you follow these guidelines you should start attracting a lot more and better quality dates. I would recommend using 4-6 photos to build your ideal profile and change your photos every couple of months to keep it fresh.

One last thing. What about the selfie, I hear you ask? Guys actually quite like a selfie on your profile as there’s something about them that creates a certain amount of intimacy, they feel they’re sharing a moment with you and are more likely to imagine that you’ll be receptive to their messages. They also quite like it if you’re showing a bit of flesh, for obvious reasons. My advice though, is that if you’re serious about looking for love online, rather than some quick hook-ups, avoid using photos with too much flesh showing and perhaps avoid selfies altogether if you’re over 30.

 

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So yeah, I did a thing… Hey Saturday now has a podcast mini series, ‘Shoot Your Shot - The Art of Dating Profile Pictures’, for all your dating profile photo needs in one place 🎧✨

Press play on this show for jam-packed mini episodes that will inspire you to experiment, have fun and aim higher when creating your profile pictures for online dating apps.

I share my top mindset shifts and practical steps you can take to create dating profile photos that are both visually and emotionally compelling, to help you attract more and better quality matches on dating apps.

This podcast is for people with a short attention-span but a big vision for their love lives 🙌🏽

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Hosted by me, Saskia
Podcast logo and art by the incredible @teadayblogs from Coppie and Paste
Produced by that cutie @northernmunki
Podcast music by me @saskia_nelson in conjunction with GrooveApp (who did most of the heavy lifting to be fair)

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I was invited on @unhingedandbumbledup podcast the other day & it was probably the most fun I’ve had recording a podcast.

Ahead of the show, I had to give them both a dating photo challenge and they presented the photos they created to me during the show.

Tune into to see who does it better, Phil or Jane. It was a super close competition to be honest… but there was a clear winner 👏🏽👏🏽

I also shared

• What makes an awesome dating profile pic
• Why good photos are so important
• My 4 top favourite date spots around the globe (I just couldn’t choose one) and much more…

Have you subscribed to this chatty, fun show that shares experiences and opinions on how to navigate the tricky world of dating to come out on top?

Thanks for having me Phil & Jane 🙏🏽

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…how would you show up?

I get a lot of emails from clients asking how and where they can do their photoshoots without many people seeing them. Ummm ….

To be fair, it’d probably be my first question too, if I were in their shoes. I’m not exactly known for being a natural badass in front of the lens (there’s a reason I prefer being behind it!).

But, thing is, those people really don’t care about what’s happening in your photoshoot. And why would you concern yourself worrying about what people - you don’t even know - think about you for 30 seconds?

Fear makes no sense, even after you unpick it and challenge it. It’s still there. Being fearless is actually really hard… however you could try this… choose to ‘act as if’ you’re fearless! Yeah, how would that look? How would you show up then? Really think about how you would approach it. And then, just as an experiment, do that.

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+ The Ex-Philes Podcast +

I had the pleasure of being invited onto an episode of the dating podcast, ’The Ex-Philes: Break-ups, Broken Hearts and Moving On’ recently & was interviewed by the two awesome hosts, Clair Lofthouse & Janice Formichella.

Thank you so much to both of you, I really enjoyed connecting & sharing my top dating profile picture expertise with you.

If you are getting over a breakup? I would highly recommend tuning in & subscribing.

Ex-Philes is a weekly podcast all about healing a broken heart, building your confidence, and moving forward in an empowered way.

Their favorite topics include healing from heartbreak, dating, ghosting, no contact, toxic relationships, communication, self-help, attachment styles and more.

Thanks Janice & Clair 🙏🏽

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Dating profiles have the potential to be intriguing; they can be a window into someone’s mind, revealing their unique way of looking at & thinking about the world.

Make sure you grab that opportunity to show people what you’re about & what you’re made of 🔥🔥

And remember, your profile pics are the most powerful way to share a lot of information about you at just a glance.

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+ Sound on for dating photo tips & good times +

Huge shout out to the legend that is James Preece, the UK dating coach king. Thank you for having me on your show, @jamespreececoach. I had a great time sharing my top dating photo tips with you, which I’m pretty sure you can tell when you listen in.

Have you subscribed to the Love Machine Podcast yet?

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You know what I love doing when I have a few moments to myself? … I love navigating to our Story highlights & scrolling through ‘Our Pics’. It gives me a legal, natural high every time.

The colour, the personalities, the vibes, the diverse life styles, the passions, the people… so much dating photoshoot awesomeness in one hit 🙌🏽✨🤩

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We need to talk about ‘talking point’ pics. Talking point pics are the ones that make people stop and do a double take, go back for another look and, yeah, slide into your messages because they need to know more.

Maybe you’re practicing tai chi, playing a ukulele, creating a stunning art piece on your iPad, doing a headstand yoga pose in the street or wrapping your hands ready for boxing (all shots we’ve taken, that have made me go back for another look 👀 check our Stories today!). Shots like these are so compelling.

Look, 5-6 photos at any one time on your dating app profile is optimum. Too few, people think you’re hiding something, too many & it’s game over as you give them too much to find fault with.

So you’ve got just 5-6 opportunities to
+ make an emotional impact
+ visually tell your story
+ and… also, importantly, intrigue people enough to reach out and ask you something or connect with you about something they see 👀

// Each one of your dating profile photos needs to bring something to the party //

So take a moment to check out your profile pics now. Which one is your ‘talking point’ pic? Answers on a postcard or in the comments, I really want to know…

And a big shout out goes out to the client I’ve been chatting with this week who’s booked Dumbo. You know who you are. You have so many exciting ideas for your shoot, I think you’re going to have a few ‘talking point’ pics to choose from 🙌🏽 And I’m so glad our Insta feed has helped you prep for your shoot. That makes me very happy.

*Tai chi photo: Kate for Hey Saturday, London

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New here? Come in, look around, stay awhile. We're creating our own brand of dating photo magic, right here. J'adoring these shots taken in Shoreditch by our London photographer, Nicole.

Photo credit: Nicole for Hey Saturday, London

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The only mantra you’ll ever need before your dating photoshoot
+ Be bold, kill boring, do ‘you’, stand out +

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